Today is another day and a continuation of yesterday issue taking responsibility on your life part one. If you have not read it follow this link to update yourself on the lessons.
If successful people kept blaming and sticking with the circumstances around them i bet they would still be in that black hole till now. Bill Gate founder of Microsoft would not be where he is had he stood and blamed the economy or his tutors at school, How about Steven Jobs of Apple computers( i bet you wont be running after that ipod,ipad or iphone now) or Barrack Obama (first ever black president of United States) had he sat by and gnawed his teeth because he is black and no black had ever ruled before him. So what have i been saying, if your situation does not work change it.Everything you experience today is the result of choices you have made in the past.You still don’t believe it? you wanna know how? ok i will give you a case study for thought.
Everything You Experience Today Is The Result Of Choices You Have Made In The Past,take Responsibility For Your Actions
John Doe is married to Jane Doe and they both have 3 kids with a happy family. John Doe gets a work that is 8am – 8pm. He comes back from work tired and all he do is watch tv and dose of. after 2yrs of repeated attitude of no change, Jane Doe finally files for divorce and leaves with the kids. Now John realises what happened and he is so pissed of with his boss casting blame for ruining his marriage. Now who is to blame? is it The Employee who gave john employment or John who have no time for his family? John is to blame. He could have changed his situation and negotiated with his boss or find a new job but he was contented with where and what he had.I bet you get the gist now.
You only have control over the thoughts you think, the images you visualize and the actions you take — Jack Canfield. If you do not like what you see as a result of these images and thoughts you produce, then change it. change your response, change your negativity, change the hours you spend ignoring your wife and family, change that angry and bull mood, change your habit, change what you watch and read,change how you talk, change your friends if you have to, Change everything.The day you change your response is the day your life gets better. You will never become successful as long as you continue to blame someone or circumstances for your lack of success.The only true way to become a winner is to acknowledge you are responsible for your every action and present situation in life.You only complain because there is something better out there. more money, a bigger house, better jobs, a more beautiful and loving spouse, why not go out and change it all. its because it can be changed that is why you complain. We do not complain of things we cannot change. How many times have you seen someone complaining of gravity? or the snow, no way instead we take advantage of it and create sports (hockey,volleyball, skating, snowboarding you name it). Successful people do not complain, instead they take their environment and circumstances and recreate something adorable out of it. They face the truth squarely and accept responsibility for their every step. Following your dream is simple but that does not make it easy,you have to be disciplined, dedicated and determined. As you take bold steps to change your life today.May that which you desire in life become a living testimony .As long as you take responsibility for every action and decisions you make you are on your way to making a difference to your life.